Baby House #2

Mural outside Baby House

Outside the Veranda Playroom

Most days start with us walking to the Baby House to meet the boys at 9:30 or 9:45. The walk takes about 20 minutes and passes through neighborhoods, mainly. Buses clog the streets at times but mostly small vans with number cards in the windows drop off and pick up passengers at unmarked areas of most neighborhoods. We have adapted our dress and habits to blend in quite well. As long as I keep my camera in my pocket we look like we belong. My new black shiny purse blends much better than the green square travel pouch I came with. We got circled by two guys one of our first days walking around here on our own. The focus was on that green pouch. So that was the last of carrying it on this trip! Olga warned us that tourists, particularly "rich" Americans, can become targets for petty theft here. We take different routes to the baby house and try not to speak too much English. Some days we have Victor drive us, and maybe take us to the grocery store or downtown to do some shopping.

When we arrive at the baby house the boys are usually waiting in the playpen just after having a snack or getting their pants changed. Sasha comes to get picked up by Daddy and Losha gets very shy and puts his finger in his mouth. After we say hello we get the boys shoes on.

Yanna insists on putting Sasha's shoes on when most others just give us the shoes now. Sandals for Inside but if we are going out the full outfit gets put on. We go to the mud room and put outside shoes on, sweatshirt, coat, and hat on.

Outside there are many playpen areas and Natasha is handing out leaves. We have seen many bouquets of leaves collected by children.

Losha is very comfortable in the presence of the fences as he poses for Daddy. We spend about 1.5 or 2 hours with the boys; up until lunch and nap time. They sometimes cry when we leave and sometimes they don't even know we have left. The first time they cried we both looked at each other and got a little smile. They are still very happy in the Baby house and they have about 2 weeks until we will take them away forever. The nannies have even started to take their own pictures to remember our boys. We will leave a few reminders for them and we have an address that we can send updates to.

BRAINSTORMING

Alright all you parents and helpful observers, here's where we call upon your insight and wisdom for a safe and sane transition home. We are anxious to hear your tips, best practices, and suggestions on essential gear.

Because we didn't know the age, sex, or condition of our future children before we came to Ukraine, (and certainly didn't expect to find two!) our preparation is a bit behind. We've just returned from the street market where Sasha and Victor helped us find a collapsible double stroller, two winter coats, two onesies, two jammie things, and two hats. We'll finish off the clothes shopping later this week with shoes, underclothes, diapers, more diapers, and a good going away outfit.

Here's the 411 on the boys to help with your suggestions (just multiply by two):

• Weight: 23.5 pounds
• Height: 32.25 inches tall (2ft, 8in)
• 18 months old
• Not potty trained
• As an amendment to Newton's Laws of Motion, the boys movements tend to be in equal and opposite direction to one another.
  
• They both walk well on flat surfaces, with the occasional hand plant or tumble thrown in.

• Both boys need some catching up in language skills, since they have only been spoken to in Russian.

• Their food at the orphanage is BLAND. No sugar or salt. Some dairy. They have never eaten any citrus foods and we probably shouldn't experiment on the way home.
  

We need your suggestions for the flight home, getting around town, at-home safety, ways to corral two children with one parent, bathtime, bedtime, feeding time, and any other time I'm forgetting.

Thanks all.

Court Day

Our First Photo as Parents!

Well, we did get the nice Judge. It took about 30 minutes in total to answer all the questions and state our desire to adopt these boys. The decision of the court was given and we are now the legal parents of two twin boys!!! There seemed to be no problems and everything went smoothly. Greg did most of the talking as customary and in his case normal. Our ride started out normal, our regular driver Victor picked us up at 9:15am and took us to the orphanage. The orphanage director came out and we put her in the front seat with Victor. We left the baby house and then headed in a direction that we didn't expect. Victor weaved around a few streets amongst big block apartment complexes like the one we stay in and asked several people how to get to somewhere. At this point I thought we must be picking up someone else, but who? Then we found a building and Victor got out to ask her a question then she got into the car with us and we drove away. She was definitely upset or frustrated and I understood "Taxi" and "city center" in Russian, and all the body language. She continued to tell me the whole story all the way to the court house. I said nothing but nodded in understanding, and didn't let on that I did not speak Russian. She seemed like a nice lady and I thought she must be part of the medical staff or somehow related to the baby house or Director. Later we found out that she was the Juror for our case and had some difficulty with transportation this morning.

As we filed into a door we expected a courtroom but it was just his office. We took the only open seats and took our coats off. Olga did move her chair to be close to us. Our Judge was smooth headed and large stature. He seemed to be all business as I feel he had a long day of sessions in front of him. We introduced ourselves and stated our name, DOB, residence, occupation and education. There were questions about accepting the court staff and accepting the application in full and we just had to answer, Yes! Then the Judge had some questions like why did you choose Ukraine and why not the US? How well off are you financially and who will care for the children? Things like that which Greg answered and I just put in my 2 cents from the side. I got to say how much we love the children, and how excited we are to adopt them. The Orphanage Director and the social worker from the Local Board of Custody stated the history of the children. Then with no questions the Prosecutor declared that she approved the application for adoption and then the Judge gave the decision and we were done. Olga did her paperwork stuff with the Judge and we went our of the office as the next group of people filed into the room.

Victor took us to the best Pizza place in town to celebrate with Olga. On our way home we stopped to see the bridge lifting to let a tanker boat through. Much of the city stopped because there was traffic backed up and everyone got out of the cars to watch the boat go by.

Tomorrow we will see the boys for the first time as their parents.

The stroller AGAIN???!!!

Boys taking a walk around the Baby House.

This is one of our common walks around the baby house. Both boys enjoy pushing along with the stroller. I don’t know why I love this so much but it almost seems choreographed or something. A couple of days ago we were over in the bigger play area and we brought the guitar with us. There are two Italian couples in the process with boys as well but they are a couple years older than our boys. The kids did not know our boys so it was an interesting lesson of how they might act around strangers in our presence. They were very quiet and stayed very close almost leaning on me. They listened as Greg played some soft tunes. We came out there because the Italian couple had asked if we would play in the garden for their child as well. The older boys were not so interested in the guitar as our boys but mostly there was this tension of not knowing these strangers. All of a sudden both boys at the same time started for the stroller about 5-6 feet away from us. They began to push it so I turned it around and gave them the back end like in the video. They pushed and pushed and didn’t stop, let go, or look back. They were done with the big kid’s playground and wanted to walk. It was good to see that they have some mechanisms for comfort. Tasks that are familiar can hopefully be used as comforts for the trip home.

MEALS

Our meals have gradually become more complex. Certainly more complex than when we had six pieces of ham, six pieces of cheese, and a loaf of bread. We have also tried to cut back on the piles of dumplings we were eating, so conveniently frozen, so quick to make, and so delicious. We can't always identify the ingredients, but all of them seem to taste good. Olga even improved them by suggesting a simple sour cream and dill sauce. Our biggest cravings are for fresh green vegetables and salads. They are strangely missing from the Ukrainian diet. We recently found a small bag of frozen broccoli that we coveted for a special occasion. Last night we made tuna noodle casserole, good ol' comfort food, Ukrainian style. Really, all our best meals have been attempts at comfort food.

Ukrainian Sliders and Fries

We are using every culinary trick in our chapbook. Flexibility is very important. We've pan fried an unknown white fish with onions and garlic successfully. We've made sliders on slices of baguette with homemade oven fries. We've roasted a whole chicken with stuffing made from our stale bread and leftover salami, then made a good chicken soup the following day by boiling the remains. We attempted macaroni and cheese but the unidentified cheese, (looks like Monterrey Jack), would not melt. The leftovers from that ultimately became the base for our Tuna Noodle Casserole.

This is how we shop for groceries: We spot a picture of tuna on a can, recognize elbow noodles through clear plastic, pick a pint of cream by the percentage of fat listed on the milk carton, and find a can with peas by the picture on the label. Mushrooms are mushrooms the world round. We topped it off with corn flakes. Of course I would have preffered cream of mushroom soup, like any good midwesterner, but that was a bit beyond our shopping linguistics.

Still, nothing has tasted exactly the same as home just yet. Often we buy the wrong ingredients altogether. Mayonnaise is a picture of a hard boiled egg and a sunflower on a juice box. We figured that out last Friday. Yesterday we bought an envelope with a picture of garlic on the front, thinking it was garlic powder. Turned out to be dried garlic greens. Orange juice? Nope. Grapefruit juice. Water or sparkling water? We still have no idea.

Even eating out can catch us. We went for pizza yesterday at a place that Sasha and Victor, her husband, recommended. The board menu behind the counter was in Russian, but not to worry. When I asked the hostess if she had a menu in English, fairly common in Kyiv, she pointed to the register and said, "He speaks English." Sweet. I ordered a Pepperoni Pizza and two Hike Beers. The beer tasted just like I expected. And the pizza? Well, here is a photograph of our pizza--our Pepper-Only Pizza. I guess we will keep trying.

More of what you Want!

This is one way that the boys have been trained to take walks. Many groups of children walk around the baby house with about 6-8 kids per caregiver. They learn very early to walk holding onto the stroller so that they can be corralled by one person. We hope to keep this practice going even at home. Today we did this walk and they lasted for about 10 minutes then we put them in the stroller for another 20 minutes of walking in big circles around the whole house. I'll show you a video of this sometime soon. My video ran out of battery today.







This is one of my favorite photos of Sasha.












This is one of my favorite photos of Losha.







We get a lot of photos in the stroller because they are confined for good access. We also got good news today Olga has our approval paperwork from the Department of Adoption in Kyiv that we needed and she has her train ticket to arrive here at 6:30am on Sunday morning. She has to be on the train for 12 hours all night to get to us. She will then have time to brief us for our court date on Monday morning at 10 am.

THE PROCESS

Now that our decision has been made here is some insight on how we expect to move forward, or sidways, depending. Running marathons has prepared Kathy and I well--International adoption is an endurance sport. We believe we are halfway home.

On Monday we have our meeting with the judge in Mykolayiv. We expect all to go well. Sasha, our facilitator here, tells us we are lucky. We have the "nice judge." After court, we begin a ten day waiting period, a standard process to give parents time to be absolutely sure about the family fit. After these ten days, we have the option of either bringing the children to our apartment or continue to visit the orphanage. Though it is nice having the caregivers change the diapers and wash the slobbery clothes, we agree that we want the boys with us as soon as possible. There is so much to learn about them before we travel. During this, our facilitators will be filing paperwork to get new birth certificates with our names included, Ukraine social security numbers, and their passports. The wait for passports should be approximately five days. Then we return to Kyiv, hopefully by car and not train. The train leaves Mykolayiv only at 7pm, takes twelve hours to Kyiv, and Olga warned us to expect a sleepless night from all the rattling. By car it is a five-hour drive with pit stops.

Once in Kyiv, we register the boys with the US Embassy where they get a medical exam and Olga submits paperwork for their visas. With all this complete we begin our travel home. It is a short flight to London, and a long flight to California. Of course this is all written in mud, dependent on many variables that like to change unpredictably. So hang in there, we'll be home as soon as we can.

DA!

This is the veranda that we like to go to with the boys for some peace and quiet. It is an enclosed patio so it is very cool which is a contrast from the main playroom which is HOT. They dress them up so very warm for going outside. Sweatshirt over their long sleeved shirt, long legging socks, then a coat and hat to top it off. They are a big bundle ready for the outdoors. I got to peak at all the layers today during a diaper change. I counted 6 in all 7 with the hat.
Sasha will now say a few words!

VIOLET AND THE BOYS

The women at the orphanage are so very sweet and caring to all the kids. This video of Losha with one of the caregivers lets me know that he really feels loved and he has a really good chance at a healthy life. We could not have asked for a better situation to fall into. Beautiful boys, great care, and there are two of them!! We are getting used to the idea of two but it sure can keep you up at night thinking of all the ways to corral and travel with two, not to mention all the baby proofing needed at home. We’ll have plenty of time for that when we get there. It looks like we will be racing to get back by the Thanksgiving Holiday. Of course this is a long time but now that we are sure of the direction it will go faster.

OUR BOYS

Here you go, we have made our intentions clear and the paperwork is filed, we are officially in Love!! We had fun deciding which photos to show you first. We picked a couple from our first days meeting them, and then a few days later. Looking over the video from just a week you can see big changes in their smile, pace of movement and verbalization. Individualized treatment is noticed by all the children and they are all attracted. We will use their nicknames from the orphanage for now and American names will follow after we get home. Losha is on the left and Sasha on the right in the swing and in the stroller. Have fun, we certainly are.

STILL WAITING...

We have spent 9 days with the boys and they just get cuter each day. They recognize who we are and come to us immediately. One of their little friends points them out to us if they are in a play pen. Most days we see them twice. We see them once from 9:30-11:00 and again 4-5:30. Yesterday it was almost 6 pm and I think the caregiver was trying to tell us that it was late for their afternoon snack. What they don’t understand is if they are telling us something like when or if they have eaten we don’t understand. We just nod and smile. Sometimes we speak Spanish by accident. We don’t have an interpreter with us at our visits. We plan to have one at a couple sessions when it gets closer to the time for transition to our care. We are still waiting for some final tests to make sure they are cleared for adoption. Of course the Ukrainian way caused a significant delay and what we thought would be a couple days is now a week for the results. Everything is just a little bit harder here. I’m not sure if that is homesickness or just acknowledgement of the situation. Not having the language at our convenience has been very difficult for Greg and I. Small phrases only go so far, then the hand signals start. We just got a cellular connection to our laptop so we can keep you up to date more often. Sorry there has been some down time but it has been tough for us as well. We look forward to sharing more with you soon. Greg also found a guitar at a local shop so he has something to keep him busy. We will take it to the orphanage as soon as we get some children’s songs worked up. Greg only knows Bob Dillon and Tom Waits songs, so those won’t work. I know you are all dying to see the boys and we will do our best. You can email or respond to the blog now and we will get your messages. We love to hear from you all so don’t be shy. We will respond to as many as we can.

SUSPENSE...

Don't mean to leave you all in suspense like this. Since coming to Mikolav the internet has been challenging, as have other things we now know are easier in Kyiv. But we have found a hotel a block away with wifi connection, accesible after buying a four dollar card downtown. We are heading to the orphanage in a short while to play with the boys, and feed them some fruit. We are allowed two hours in the morning and two in the afternoon when paperwork does not get in the way.

We are still waiting on some blood test results before we make our final decision. The boys are younger than the age typically adopted, so their next set of blood tests wasn't scheduled until some time next month. But blood was drawn two days ago and is in Odessa now. We should have the results by tomorrow. Then we will be able to move forward and show you the photos and video that are piling up on our camera.

Olga has left for Kyiv, to help a family adopt a child with Downs Syndrome. We have a new translator here, Sasha, and her husband Victor drives us around town. The apartment we are staying in is Victor's mother's. She has emigrated to Italy and they now rent the place to visiting foreigners. Time to run...we will try to write more soon.

Mikolav

As always in international adoption there is uncertainty and changing plans. We are not waiting for our appointment we already had it and have left Kiev on an amazing journey. Again early in the morning, 4am we drove to Mikaylov in southern Ukraine. It took us 5 hours of bumpy and foggy conditions to get there by 10am. Our goal was 11am to the orphanage because it is Friday and the orphanage director has a shortened day. We did arrive in time and got to hear of the medical condition and to our wonderful surprise there was not a lot to tell. Some delay, of course expected and definitely without parents. Abandoned at birth by the birth mother and she did not have any documentation to say who she was. Totally orphaned from birth. Now for the incredible part they are twins. I know there are going to be more than one of you that will say, "I told you so". We can not believe it ourselves. We are in the deciding phase and there are still uncertainties that can occur but we really like these boys. We will visit every day and see if a bond grows. If all of their medical exams check out as we expect we will move into the paperwork phase. We do not want to get you all too attached yet so we will put up some pictures as soom as we do make our final decision. Oh, by the way, they are 16 months old and very cute. It seems almost impossible to find such young boys in Ukraine that are available for us. They just came off the domestic adoption list and one hour later we were having a meeting and deciding if we wanted to go see them. We have a lot of good work to do and if all goes well we will be here for about 20 days. Then back to Kiev for a little while. This region has some challenges as well so hopefully Olga will work her magic again. We apologize for the delay but this is the first chance we had to get to internet access. I think we will be able to have access now at a local hotel.
Thank you for hanging in there with us, we are doing perfectly well.

Rotary Kyiv-Centre

Dr. M. Mominul Hoque, Recent president 07-08 with Kathy and Greg

All the rotarians out there will be proud of me. Greg and I attended a Wednesday evening Rotary meeting in the Business Centre of Kyiv. District 2230 established 8/31/1999. There were about 20 people around a table at 6:30 pm. We had Olga call the day before to get the address and she of course set us up with a driver. There were nerves for what type of meeting and if anyone would speak English. We were in good hands as always with Rotarians. They greeted us after a couple enchanges with English as we stumbled with our Russian. I was prepared to introduce myself and Greg and use Rotarian Americanitz. We were sat next to a translator and then had a birthday announcement with flowers and a gift. I felt like I was at home in Ojai-West. We were introduced and I described where we were from and some of the recent projects of our club. We also were interested in finding a point person to assist with medical supply transport assistance from Direct Relief International. The contact with Matt MacCalla that I made at a Rotary meeting a couple of months ago led to conversation on the limitations that he sees in getting shipments into Ukraine. We met 2 physicians who may be hellpful with these major issues and a business man who was most interested in helping in any way. They talked about matching grants as well and we can always connect with them in the future on issues. It was very nice and we are glad we went. Thank you Rotary for this opportunity.

Current President and Kathy exchanging flags during the meeting.

PHOTOS

Our apartment in Kiev. Google Earth us...

Statue of Ukrainian writer, Shevchenko. (Little girl bonus.)

Love, Ukrainian Style

The Begging Dogs

We have no idea what this is...mounted to our wall with blinking red light...

RAINY DAY

We Spoke with Olga yesterday. She spent the afternoon lobbying at the National Adoption Agency. Appointments with officials occur on Tuesday, at the agency’s leisure. We hope to hear the date for our next review of available children by Thursday.

Our daily walk was rained out today, but we should have a more active evening. Olga has arranged a taxi to take us to a Rotary Meeting in the business center of Kiev tonight. We aren’t sure if anyone will speak English, but hope to find someone that will politely nod along.

Otherwise, our conversations will be limited to the following words and phrases:
HELLO/GOODBYE said early and often.
YES/NO note: do not use, ”yes” in place of, “whatever”
PLEASE/THANK YOU our most-used words.
THIS ONE while pointing, usually at food.
CHECK, PLEASE tipping is optional, but expected from tourists.
I DON’T UNDERSTAND. said to just about any question or reply.
EXCUSE ME said after bumping people with luggage in airport.
DO YOU SPEAK ENGLISH? usually follows, “I don’t understand.”
BRATWURST a universal word that Chicago taught me well.

So far we have survived on these language staples. Coupled with finger pointing and a common numeric system, we’ve completed essential tasks like getting directions and shopping at the grocery store. Regardless, Kathy comes well-stocked with Rotarian flags and pins. I have ironed my pants and will smile when smiled upon. It is what we are known for here. We are now off to buy lunch. Bratwurst.

OLGA

“I am Olga. I will work for you.” This is the first thing Olga said to me at the airport. She is dressed conservatively by Ukrainian standards. A soft turtleneck sweater and a fitted skirt that hems at the top of her heeled boots. We already know of her reputation from other adoptive parents. Olga has been coordinating adoptions in Ukraine for ten years and after fifty placements she stopped counting. She speaks warmly about the families she has helped. She now asks that her families limit sending greeting cards to Christmas and Birthdays, otherwise the amount of mail is overwhelming. Our agency has said they wish they had an Olga in every region.

She is warm with us and well versed in the needs of adopting parents that are non-Ukrainian speaking, unfamiliar with the streets, unable to read the Cyrillic alphabet, jetlagged, and hungry. She tells us exactly what to pay the driver, and that we can pay him in American dollars. Most things we can pay for in American dollars.

Her English is clean and she speaks to us like writing a letter. “Today, I shall take you for groceries. Tomorrow you will do this for yourselves.” She walks with a swing that makes men and women step from her path. We shuffle in her wake like ducklings. We were told our first list of tasks. She checked the exchange rate at a nearby bank and we switch some US dollars into hryvnias. We bought groceries at a small market a block from our apartment. “You will need water.” She grabs two bottles from the store shelf and hands them to me. We've learned it is better to simply follow her lead and save our fumbling for later. She continues, “You will have six slices of ham and six slices of cheese. This will be enough food for breakfast.”

She took us to the “Double Coffee”, a restaurant with menus in English and pictures of the food. We like pictures. Kiev students sit around us practicing their English language skills. Here, we got our first example of how she would work for us. Our young waiter forgot to divide the bill, accidentally including her meal on our check. She sighed and shook her head. She called him back to the table and spoke to him in Ukrainian. Her voice revved louder and faster, leading to a punctuating hand spearing into the air. The young waiter lowered his head and conceded. She continued. Some students glanced over, but turned when she looked their way. After two minutes of explanation from Olga, the waiter walked away to correct the problem. Kathy and I thought she was finished, perhaps the passion was just a characteristic of the language. But a moment later, “One moment, I will go to help him.” She walked to the register where she found more employees to straighten out. She came back to our table completely unflustered. “They tell me he is new. This is a good lesson for him.” She continues, “The youth, they want to make money and not earn money.”

During this process, when so many parts of adoption are dependent on the details, it brings a certain comfort that she will let nothing slip by us. Later we witness her same demand for perfection repeated; when a bank has trouble processing our debit cards, when a landlord has difficulty calculating US dollars to hryvnias, at the airport when we are charged for overweight luggage. We are happy that she is on our side.

When our young waiter returned with the corrected bill she smiles, “Yes, this is perfect.” The waiter bowed respectfully and walked away quickly. In moments we were talking about the miracle of adoption.

KHARKIV ORPHANAGE

We have just arrived back in Kiev without choosing a child from the orphanage. We left Kharkov this morning at 5:30 am. Our flight was at 7:40am and left on time. It looks like we will be here for about a week.

Now back to our stay in Kharkov. We arrived very late Thursday night at our apartment, near midnight. We had a meeting at 9:15am at the local department and then off to the orphanage. The orphanage was hard to find amongst tenant row apartment like buildings with winding streets. We finally found the Dyetskaye Dom (Baby House). It was very clean and stood out in comparison to the surrounding buildings. The women wore white coats and none spoke English. We sat in the director’s office and she greeted us and asked about our family. Olga seemed to be giving her some details about us and our book that we had back at the Department in Kiev. She then went over the medical information in much more detail and told of some diagnoses we had not heard at the first meeting. Then she said “the boy is here”. He was led in by the hand and he just about ran into Greg’s arms. He was a cute boy with beautiful Red/brown hair and was quite tall. We played in the room for maybe 10 minutes. We got out some toys and started to interact. They then took us to another playroom. I led him down a flight of stairs and he was walking step over step but was on his toes. We did a number of gross motor and fine motor tasks, tried as much verbal and social interaction as we could. There was an Italian couple with a small boy doing the same thing. The boys interacted a little but not much. Our charge was quite active and very distractible. I held him and that seemed to make him calm for a while. We asked questions about language and he doesn’t use any understandable words. We sat him to do some coloring and he made one mark on the page and then bit the tip off the orange crayon. We were sweating from the 30 minute event. It felt like there were a few positive spots, but it was obvious he had problems we would not be able to correct. Just as Jill taught me in my pre-travel session, he could not be focused for more than a few seconds and he was everywhere. Watching Jan’s speech therapy work has given me insight as well as to the lack of available time that this child has for learning. We were in agreement that his brain was not going to be very moldable in the future and birth hypoxia and microencephelopathy was too pronounced. We did not need the Doctor to travel to tell us that. We did come out of there with confidence that we made the right choice. We know the whole process and if the right child is in front of us we will know it. We will certainly bring the Doctor to see any child that we are considering.

We are now in a waiting time for Olga to push for our next opportunity for another meeting at the Department to choose another child. We will look around Kiev more and spend time with each other. We have made contact with the Nun that Susan and Fabio met and connected us with. Maybe we can spend time with her after the weekend.

I have to say it felt very good to hold that little boy. He needs that very much.

Miss and love you all.

Interview

Our day started as many have been, tired from less than a full nights sleep. I just couldn’t sleep until early morning so Greg let me sleep until 9:30am. Olga arrived at 12:30 and we had our nice clothes on ready for our first meeting. Our walk went quickly to the department so we wandered along a souvenir and art walk. I had too many nerves to buy anything. We went to the doorway with Olga and were standing with several other people waiting the summons up the stairway. I had such butterflies in my stomach waiting and we walked up the stairs when summoned. Irena was our interviewers name and she was quite young, maybe 25 years old. For some reason seeing her helped calm me down. She looked at our passports and then our photo book and seemed to enjoy thumbing through the pages. She wanted to keep the book at the department. I guess I should have made two. Now we don’t have one for the orphanage. They presented us with 5 cases all boys. They were all under 7 years old and only two under 5. We’ve made a decision to see a 3 year old boy who is in House for Babies #3 in Kharkiv. It is the second largest city in Ukraine. We have plane tickets and an apartment already reserved. Olga works quickly. She takes care of every detail and we are going to fly with her tomorrow night. It’s an hour flight from Kyiv. We will give you many more details when the time is right. We will see him Friday morning and depending on the internet access we will try to put more up Friday or Saturday so you know our next step. Love to all.