Sunday, October 12, 2008

Mikolav

As always in international adoption there is uncertainty and changing plans. We are not waiting for our appointment we already had it and have left Kiev on an amazing journey. Again early in the morning, 4am we drove to Mikaylov in southern Ukraine. It took us 5 hours of bumpy and foggy conditions to get there by 10am. Our goal was 11am to the orphanage because it is Friday and the orphanage director has a shortened day. We did arrive in time and got to hear of the medical condition and to our wonderful surprise there was not a lot to tell. Some delay, of course expected and definitely without parents. Abandoned at birth by the birth mother and she did not have any documentation to say who she was. Totally orphaned from birth. Now for the incredible part they are twins. I know there are going to be more than one of you that will say, "I told you so". We can not believe it ourselves. We are in the deciding phase and there are still uncertainties that can occur but we really like these boys. We will visit every day and see if a bond grows. If all of their medical exams check out as we expect we will move into the paperwork phase. We do not want to get you all too attached yet so we will put up some pictures as soom as we do make our final decision. Oh, by the way, they are 16 months old and very cute. It seems almost impossible to find such young boys in Ukraine that are available for us. They just came off the domestic adoption list and one hour later we were having a meeting and deciding if we wanted to go see them. We have a lot of good work to do and if all goes well we will be here for about 20 days. Then back to Kiev for a little while. This region has some challenges as well so hopefully Olga will work her magic again. We apologize for the delay but this is the first chance we had to get to internet access. I think we will be able to have access now at a local hotel.
Thank you for hanging in there with us, we are doing perfectly well.

6 comments:

bragbaby said...

So many good thoughts and prayers going your way. We met Matthew the day he came off the registry and believe it was meant to be. I pray these are your boys!

MaryLee

Unknown said...

Yea!!!YEA!!! YEA!!!We are trying not to get too excited but this sounds like an answered prayer!!! We are so happy for all of you! Hope the next 20 days go well. Please let us know more about these wonderful boys as soon as you make your decision. Can"t wait to hear more.
Love you all bunches
Susan

Susan and Fabio Sorano said...

OH MY GOD! YOU DON'T REALLY THINK WE CAN KEEP FROM BEING EXCITED DO YOU. WE ALL CHECK THE BLOG SITE ALMOST EVERY OTHER HOUR. I KNOW THERE ARE YET SOME HUDDLES TO JUMP BUT IT SOUNDS
LIKE A GOOD POINT TO START BUT I KNOW THERE ARE A LOT OF THINGS TO DISCUSS WITH EACH OTHER. YOU ARE IN ALL OF OUR PRAYERS.
LOVE,
MOM

Anonymous said...

This is so exciting. I have been thinking a lot about your journey. I had the opportunity to see 2 twin boys that were extremely abused and neglected before they came into the system at the age of 2. They were adopted by the age of 3 and are now almost 8. Their adoptive parents have done a wonderful job of providing for their needs and you would never guess where they started out. They are well-adjusted and have attached to their parents. It just affirmed for me that it is possible to overcome almost anything as long as the consistency and commitment is there. I thought about sharing this with you a few days ago, but with this post, it just made it more obvious to me.

Thanks for keeping us posted.

Tricia

ArtworkByRuth said...

Congratulations! Found your blog today! I do believe you are in the Kherson region? We adopted near there last year and are trying to return for a girl we met at our son's orphanage. Praying for wisdom for you and a forever family for the boys!

Unknown said...

Congratulations! I came across your blog when I was searching for the name of the orphanage director in Mykolayiv (failing memory!) and it brought back memories of my own adoption of a baby girl - now 9.5 yo - from Mykolayiv back in 1999. You're in for the adventure of a lifetime, and more joy than you can possibly imagine. Have a wonderful time getting to know your boys!

Ellen