Saturday, October 18, 2008

STILL WAITING...

We have spent 9 days with the boys and they just get cuter each day. They recognize who we are and come to us immediately. One of their little friends points them out to us if they are in a play pen. Most days we see them twice. We see them once from 9:30-11:00 and again 4-5:30. Yesterday it was almost 6 pm and I think the caregiver was trying to tell us that it was late for their afternoon snack. What they don’t understand is if they are telling us something like when or if they have eaten we don’t understand. We just nod and smile. Sometimes we speak Spanish by accident. We don’t have an interpreter with us at our visits. We plan to have one at a couple sessions when it gets closer to the time for transition to our care. We are still waiting for some final tests to make sure they are cleared for adoption. Of course the Ukrainian way caused a significant delay and what we thought would be a couple days is now a week for the results. Everything is just a little bit harder here. I’m not sure if that is homesickness or just acknowledgement of the situation. Not having the language at our convenience has been very difficult for Greg and I. Small phrases only go so far, then the hand signals start. We just got a cellular connection to our laptop so we can keep you up to date more often. Sorry there has been some down time but it has been tough for us as well. We look forward to sharing more with you soon. Greg also found a guitar at a local shop so he has something to keep him busy. We will take it to the orphanage as soon as we get some children’s songs worked up. Greg only knows Bob Dillon and Tom Waits songs, so those won’t work. I know you are all dying to see the boys and we will do our best. You can email or respond to the blog now and we will get your messages. We love to hear from you all so don’t be shy. We will respond to as many as we can.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi to the new family!Sure sounds like it will be one. Guess you didn't get my last comment. Are the twins fraternal or identical? I have, as you know, a special affinity for twins. Lots of excitement at the gym and much talk while waiting for answers and pics. I keep watching your blog at least 3 times a day, glad you can access us more now. Anxiously waiting news and pics. Joan

bragbaby said...

Just keep hanging in there. I know it's hard to be so far away from everything familiar but it is so worth it in the end. You continue to be in our thoughts & prayers.

MaryLee, Bob & Kids

Anonymous said...

Dylan and Waits are just fine...

Don't wait, sing to them now. I sang all different songs to my girls, they loved them all. Singing to someone is an intimate communication, no matter the song.

So glad things are progressing. Even if slow and difficult, it's still progress. Hang in there! Your patience will pay off.

Shannon

P.S. Anything sung in a soft tone is a lullaby... :)

Anonymous said...

Everything is in Gods time. We know that he has a plan for all of you and pray that it is for you to be together. We love you guys and want you to know that we miss you and think of you everyday. The kids are soooo excited and everyday after school they ask "Did they get the boys yet?" We have to keep explaining that it is a waiting game and you never know what can happen next. They are praying alot for you guys as well. We love you!!! :)

Anonymous said...

Good luck with everything. I know the delays can be really frustrating, but once everything is complete, you will forget about all of that because it's so worth it.

Can't wait to see pictures!

Laura
fellow blogger

hanichka said...

Hey I just posted a comment and my lovely mozilla kicked me off! Just wanted to say hi and best of luck with whatever you decide to do. I cannot imagine the waiting, but I also know you are patient people! Love you lots, Hana.

Susan and Fabio Sorano said...

We are all so excited to hear more about the boys!!! We pray the blood work is all good news and you are all home soon.
Love
Susan